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Most first date night never go as planned. If you have never had sex, then you probably are a victim of premature ejaculation. This is frustrating since most ladies shun such men. Get to know the techniques that people employ to avoid ejaculating during foreplay. Here is a look at some.
The squeeze technique
You can delay ejaculation during foreplay by making use of the squeeze technique. This is the stop-and-start technique and sensation focus. Use either one of these or combine all the techniques. The squeeze technique means squeezing at the base of your penis when you start feeling like becoming too aroused and move your hand more slowly.
Play with your mind
When you start having a feeling of premature ejaculation, think about something disturbing. Like being hit by a car, someone vomiting, seeing a big snake in your living room, stepping into a messy toilet, it will dull the sensation for a bit until you get the job done.
Have plenty of sex
In general, go away somewhere and spend a week or two doing nothing but enjoying each other – sexually as well as intellectually, emotionally etc. It is important to understand that wen sexual partners have lots of sex, ejaculation starts to come later while her orgasm starts to come earlier, so this means that there is an exciting balance.
Use a topical anesthetic
You can use a topical anesthetic, like a cream with lidocaine. This will reduce penile feeling and prolong the time to ejaculation. However, make sure you don’t have any skin reaction with the anesthetic you choose to use.
Avoid penile stimulation
Try to desist from direct physical penile stimulation during foreplay. This means that you should, by all means, avoid touch/rub/wank/shake/grind your cock during foreplay. Keep it off-limits. It’ll buy more time.
You should always avoid going for a date with a loaded penis. Consider asking your sexual partner for a BJ or a hand job first. You’ll be able to last a lot longer if your penis manages to get up again.
If your mind thinks of it before your next date; beat off two hours beforehand. You won’t be as excited because you’ll still be recovering from the last time you came.
That said, don’t beat up yourself simply because you came during foreplay. It is normal and almost every man went through it. Control comes with time and the next time there is sex it will be totally different from the previous experience.